Unholy Feminists

S2E08: No is a full sentence

What were you wearing? What did you go there? Boys will be boys. He bullies you because he likes you. These sentences that enable victim blaming and rape culture has been normalized and we delve into the harm it causes in this episode. 1. What is rape culture?2. In what ways does society reinforces, normalize and excuse rape culture?3. How do power, gender, class and race play a role in who is blamed and who is believed? (victim blaming, public perception etc)4. What will a culture that centres consent and accountability look like? (the role of men, the media and feminists)Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

S02E07: Having a boyfriend is a humiliation kink

Ever heard the phrase, "Men will embarass you!" because they sure will! Sit with us as we dissect the viral vogue articles and share our opinion on if and why having a boyfriend is embarrassing.Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

S2E06: Soft Life, Hard Truths

What happens when feminism meets the boyfriend in modern dating? The 50/50 conversations, the emotional labor trap. Let's get into how patriarchy thrives on romance and what equality looks like between and beyond the sheets. In this episode, we talk about;1. What does soft life even mean and who gets to live it? We can localize it...2. Can you be a feminist and still want a provider partner? Or are you reinforcing patriarchal ideals by wanting it?3. How do women unlearn the idea that struggle equals strength? 4. Are modern relationship only aesthetically feminist? How does finances look for you in your relationships?5. How can we redefine comfort, care, and partnership in ways that don’t depend on patriarchy?Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

S2E05: OnlyFans, Sex Work: Are these feminist?

Is every choice inherently feminist? As much as sex workers deserve to have rights and the industry needs legalization, can we say it is an empowering choice? Why can't it just be a job? In this episode, we delve into; 1. What is sex work?2. The debate amongst SWERFs about sex work3. Purity culture and its damnation of sex work4. Is sex work exploitation or empowerment?5. White feminism and how it ignores the context of sex work in lower-income countries6. How do we make sex work safer for sex workers?Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

S2E04: Post-nut clarity or post-orgasm afterglow & aftercare

How do we feel after having an orgasm? Do we feel post-nut clarity or something more glowing than that? And of course, we're also going to talk about aftercare as well, but a good orgasm has to end with a good aftercare as well.Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on pleasure, the big O, sex positivity and body positivity as a feminist with your hosts, Cath and Gail. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminist and LISTEN to us on SPOTIFY, APPLE PODCASTS, DEEZER, PODCAST INDEX, PLAYER FM, POD CHASER & PODCAST ADDICT.Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

S2E03: Existential Crisis, Period, Men

Existential crisis? Don’t worry, we’ve all been there! This is a yapping session, no structure, no wise words, just women talking about how weird men are and why we are saddled with periods. Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on pleasure, the big O, sex positivity and body positivity as a feminist with your hosts, Cath and Gail. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

S02E02: Are we getting fired too? - A Charlie Kirk Edition

Incel culture, Charlie Kirk, Misogyny we talk about the red pill "movement" and the adverse consequence of this on society and women. On this episode, we dive into; 1. What happened with Charlie Kirk2. Charlie Kirk is a symptom to a bigger problem3. What are red-pilled men4. How does all this tie to the male loneliness epidemic5. Honestly, should we even care if the men are lonely?6. Call for male allyshipFind us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

S02E01: Body Count Culture: Who’s Counting?

How many people have you slept with? Don’t worry, we don’t actually want your answer. But isn’t it funny how that number, your so-called ‘body count’ has become society’s favorite scoreboard? If it’s too low, you’re a prude. High, a slut. In this episode, we dive into; What is body count culture and who's counting?The slut/prude trap (being called a prude when you're not sexually active and a slut when you are)How does sex shame affects desires?Discuss performative sex, the pressure to be good at sex influencing hoe phases, slut era etcHow does one claim their sexual agency without drowning in all these misogynistic ideals?Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

S01E13: What she sees vs. What I see

Girlhood, friendships and platonic soulmates.... In this episode, we get into beauty standards, navigating body image with support people;1. What were some of the first comments you remember getting about your body as a child or teen? 2. What beauty standards did you internalize growing up?3. Tell each other what stands out when we look at the other person, could be physical, emotional etc and ask the other if they agree with it.4. What are some ways in which we hide, shrink or perform confidence around people? 5. Has the other person done or said anything that helped shift your body-perception? Share 6. How can we reframe bad body days? Share tipsFind us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

S01E12: Purity Culture: Trauma not morals

Virginity is a social construct used to control women like so many things. Purity culture was born out of the need for men to feel like they fully own a woman. In this episode, we explore:1. What is purity culture?2. How did purity culture come to be and how does it serve patriarchy?3. How does purity culture harm women?4. What can we do to fight purity culture?    Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.